Victoria

Hi, I’m Victoria. I’m not a psychologist or a therapist, instead my relationship advice comes from real life dating experience and lessons learnt by trial and error. All the guys I’ve dated have been very different but I certainly came across my fare share of “Mr Unavailable” types, so if you find yourself in a situation with a guy who won’t commit, hopefully these stories will help.

Don’t listen to dating advice: listen to your intuition

Sometimes when we’re anxious over a situation, we turn to other people for advice. Dating blogs (like this one), friends, family, therapists, or the Uber driver who’s giving your drunk-ass a ride home. But the problem with listening to too much dating advice is it can cloud your judgement. Everyone has their own opinion, ranging …

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Orbiting: the dating trend that’s got everyone confused

So we’ve already had “benching”, “breadcrumbing” and “ghosting“. What more could we have to go through in today’s complicated world of dating? Well it turns out, there’s yet another dating trend we have to worry about: “orbiting”. Picture the moon orbiting the Earth. The moon is in sight, but it’s always at a distance, never …

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Dating a sociopath

Dating a sociopath: Tips for dealing with sociopaths in relationships

Initially, it’s not easy to tell you’re dating a sociopath. Sociopaths can be incredibly likable people and very charming at first. But then over time, the little red flags start to appear and all of a sudden a different side comes out that you never saw in the beginning. It feels almost like Jekyll and …

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